wedding talk.

Since being engaged I have began to notice more and more about weddings, engagement pictures, invitations, and blah-blah-blahty-blah all that jazz.

I mean, I noticed before that people my age were getting engaged and married, but I never really noticed, ya know?

It's kind of like you don't really notice the food commercials until you are hungry. Right? Well, I never noticed the wedding hoopla until I became engaged. 

And let me tell you. I'm a little irritated. 

What? Irritated? Why? A wedding and engagement should be the best time in your life? It's a time where everyone gets to see you being SO happy? Everyone wishes they were you!

THAT RIGHT THERE is the issue.

I feel as if weddings have changed into a popularity contest. 

I have the best dress. 
I have the best photos.
Oooooh I had fireworks at my wedding. 
I had an open bar. 

NEWSFLASH, folks. The wedding isn't about impressing others. And, it really just irks me that it has evolved to be another reason for people to get "likes" on Facebook.

Don't get me wrong, I think weddings are great and fun. But much too often I see the pictures of the wedding party in the limo with their fancy drinks and I notice, the bride and groom aren't even sitting with each other. Where is that selfie stick? In the brides hands as she parades around trying to get the perfect picture, instead of enjoying the once in a lifetime moment she is sharing with the man she is going to spend the rest of her life with.

Like, for real. Take a moment and chill with the camera phones and the social media. 

If you are lucky enough to have found the love of your life, why does it matter so much to you that you have a perfect picture of EVERY INTERACTION YOU HAVE ON YOUR WEDDING DAY.

Additionally, the fact that the AVERAGE wedding cost today is 26,000 dollars. WHAT.

Do you know what I could do with 26,000 dollars?! Who in their right mind would spend that much on just ONE DAY. 

I get it, sure, it's your wedding day. But the fact people are spending over 2000 dollars on flowers THAT WILL EVENTUALLY DIE is unfathomable. I just don't get it.

So, brides to be, take a request from me and just take a moment to enjoy the moment. Stop caring about the the attention and the "likes" and just remember, this is supposed to be a time for your and your fiance. Don't make it about everyone else. 

If I offend anyone, I am truly sorry, but honestly...I feel as if some people will see my point of view on things. The world of social media is ruining the process of engagement and marriage and it is distracting us from the meaning of marriage. 

Heck, maybe that's why 50% of people in the US get divorced? Who knows. 

What do you guys think?


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need new extensions?

Hi Lovelies! 

I really do apologize for being such a horrible blogger but this semester of school is really going to kick me in the but. It's only the 3rd week and I haven't had much time to even breath, yet alone blog. BUT-- I wanted to bring to attention a brand that had contacted me recently about a new set of extensions. 

As you already know (if you have been a loyal So, hi reader) I have been through a TON of extensions, and I have reviewed all of them here on the blog. So when this company reached out to me I was like "Eh, I don't know if I really want another set... I have so much hair in my drawers already!" But then I thought about it, and I realized, why not try them out! Let my readers know if they are a good set of extensions because I have been seeing a lot of bloggers review them around the blogosphere so I wanted to provide my readers with a good review. 

So here goes. Excuse the horrible, messy, hair. Story of my life. RATCHET. Oh well. 

Here is before Irresistible Me.

And here is after, with the extensions in. 

Again, I apologize for my ratchet hair. Bleaching it really rats it up hahaha. But you get the jist of the length that was added to my hair. A LOT. (Also, I didn't even use all of the clips and I had all of this "umph" added to my hair.)

Here's a better look at the length. And the color? OMG perfect. I ordered  the Royal Remy Golden blonde 22 inch, 200 grams set. 

So, here's the low down on what I thought about this new set of hair extensions. 

1. The quality is GREAT, you can choose your length and the weight, very versatile too! You get exactly what you want.
2. The color is PERFECT. I have an ombre, so it's always hard to match the hair color, but this really worked well with my hair color. It blended wonderfully.
3. It's affordable (prices ranging from 37 dollars to 339) and they have a valentines sale going on now (so I'd by them now if you are planning on getting a set!)
4. Everyone needs a good set of extensions in the back burner to clip in and feel like a hot tamale once and awhile. 

So, please, if you are at all interested in getting a set of extensions I would totally check out Irresistible Me. Especially with the sale that they have going on now! If you get them, I'd love to know what you think! 

Hope you are all having a wonderful week :) 

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*** These extensions were sent to me to review. All opinions are my own.


small business spotlight.

Hi lovelies! Sorry for the long break, I had internet issues since I was home for break. But, I am back to school and now I have reliable internet (thank the dear Lord). BUT I wanted to tell you guys about a wonderful Etsy site I have had the opportunity to collaborate. 

The shop is called Engravers Nest and the owner, Erin, is an absolute delight. She makes personalized wine glasses, champagne glasses, and beer glasses. I found her while searching for some cute glasses to use for my upcoming wedding, and once I saw her shop I fell in love! 

The stemless champagne glasses, which I LOVE, have gold print saying "Mr." and "Mrs."
Perfect for the night of the wedding, don't you think?!

The glasses are BEAUTIFUL and I couldn't ask for anything more. Please, if you are getting married anytime soon (or just want a cute gift to give one of our friends) check Engravers Nest out. 

You can find her on instagram as well her tag is @engraversnest

ALSO - You can get whatever you want for 10% off with the code NEST10

Don't forget to support small business! Nothing better than supporting the people that need us and actually get to put money back into small towns. 

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*These items were sent to be to review. All opinions are my own.